Disengaged parenting is the greatest enemy of a productive and happy family. Disengaged parenting is the root of most dysfunctional children on the planet. With an appetite for self-destruction, this style of parenting consistently cost tax payers billions of dollars annually.
Below are 5 top behaviors to identify and watch for so as to stop this madness:
Behavior # 1: Self-Sabotage
Self-sabotage is a deliberate action many parents used to communicate weak and ineffective parenting skills to their children. The inability to invest one or more hours daily for self empowerment is the greatest sign of self-sabotage. The less time parents invest in self-development, the more critical and shallow the parent child relationship. Parents can only give quality life to their children, only after they have given it to themselves first.
Behavior # 2: Unforgiving
Harsh and unmerciful parenting styles never worked. Unforgiveness is like feeding poison to your children and hiding the antidote. Children can not develop emotional strength in an environment of unforgiveness. An unforgiving environment for anyone is toxic and should not be tolerated as a style of parenting. Parents in this situation can begin by writing down a list of individuals who have hurt them in the past and write a letter of forgiveness to each one of them. Do not delay! Your child's development is at stake.
Behavior # 3: Critical
Parents skilled in criticism are dangerous to their children and must become accountable for the damage. Fault finding and judgemental communication techniques will lower your child's self-esteem and destroy any chance of a meaningful relationship with themselves and others. Parents in this situation must choose to recognize the opportunity and value they bring to their children. Your child does not stand a chance without you taking better care of yourself.
Behavior # 4: Double Mindedness
A double minded parent is one who is unstable in all their ways. This style of parenting produce confusion and is a major reason why many children often shut down. Parents must make up their mind to correct this negative behavior before blaming their children. Children need structure and stability in abundance in order to develop successfully. Parents in this situation must offer a higher quality relationship to their children by refusing to tolerate inconsistency and low-level thinking.
Behaviot # 5: Death Wish
Wishing you had a different life and speaking vile and negative words to your children is commanding a death wish. These parents must face their reality. Do not run from the challenges that come with parenting. It's an honor when you are given a child to empower for greatness. It's a big responsibility, but you are more than capable of affecting positive change in your child's life. This is the time to give yourself a chance and demonstrate the hidden parental skills deep within your heart. This world needs you. Your children need you. I need you to help other parents who struggle with the same issue. Will you help?
The Resource: Http://www.BrooksandBrooksFoundation.org
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